Sarah S
Member
Hello everyone~
I have seen some pictures where officers are posing with passengers, although it was always conveyed to me that officers were somehow unable / forbidden to have close interactions with them. Yet some of those pictures looks so intimate and close that I doubt the officers had just met these passengers and then randomly snapped a pic - they must have had enough time to get to know each other.
Officer Lightoller and Murdoch had even met their future wives while on duty on a ship, how did they manage that with their job being so strict and time consuming? Was their enough time for free interactions? Would only 1st class passengers have been able to speak to an officer?
And theoretically, could it have been possible that the same happened on the Titanic, could for example Officer Moody or Pitman have met a passenger on the Titanic and become close with her during the voyage, given that the Titanic had reached its planned destination? Was there room for that in their timeline as officers?
Can someone explain to me the officer-passenger relationships and in how far close relationships could have been made in those days on ships?
Thank you very much
I have seen some pictures where officers are posing with passengers, although it was always conveyed to me that officers were somehow unable / forbidden to have close interactions with them. Yet some of those pictures looks so intimate and close that I doubt the officers had just met these passengers and then randomly snapped a pic - they must have had enough time to get to know each other.
Officer Lightoller and Murdoch had even met their future wives while on duty on a ship, how did they manage that with their job being so strict and time consuming? Was their enough time for free interactions? Would only 1st class passengers have been able to speak to an officer?
And theoretically, could it have been possible that the same happened on the Titanic, could for example Officer Moody or Pitman have met a passenger on the Titanic and become close with her during the voyage, given that the Titanic had reached its planned destination? Was there room for that in their timeline as officers?
Can someone explain to me the officer-passenger relationships and in how far close relationships could have been made in those days on ships?
Thank you very much