"Misapplied"? The captain was seeing Lightoller loading Boat 6 and even he prevented one woman from allowing her husband into the boat. If he had seen that and this was "misapplied," Lightoller would have been charged with mutiny. We're talking about a subordinate here, he had to listen to the captain. I would prefer that Lightoller and Murdoch were told by the captain to do what they could do with the orders they were given and left it vague, Lightoller might have simply told all of the men to wait until the rescue ship arrived or until the boats may come back or he might have simply been under the impression that they would have simply went to Murdoch's side, since he was probably reserving them for all of the women and children travelling without male relatives (and there were plenty of them). He was a husband and father after all, so he wouldn't have felt that families should be separated like that. The blame should be on the men themselves as they got what was coming to them just by being this incredibly stupid. Seriously, I did not think for a second that a research article would have stooped this low in considering a subordinate crew member whose main fault was a poorly done evacuation procedure a murderer, on par with Jeffrey Dahmer (last time I checked, Dahmer killed and ate lower class gay men of colour because he knew police officers wouldn't care about their deaths: here, we have men with wealth and privilege, and thus their families would have cared about their survival, and would not have taken kindly for their relative to be killed by an officer just because of a Y-chromosome).