Arun Vajpey
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It is likely that Ruth was sent to go back to the cabin for the extra blankets before the loading of Lifeboat 11 occurred. She might have stood behind her mother at that point, while her siblings were loaded on to the lifeboat. Either way, Ruth was left on the ship, and checked to see if she could get into Lifeboat 13, which she was able to do so.
If the lifeboats were loaded at both the Boat and Promenade Decks, then the Beckers would have boarded at the latter, as Ruth said that she was one of the last persons in Lifeboat 13.
Thomas Krom
Her mother had followed the two younger children into No. 11, only realizing as it was being lowered that Ruth was still on the ship. She called up to her daughter to get into another boat. Ruth moved down the deck, and saw Moody loading No. 13. She asked if she could get into the boat. "He said 'sure', and he picked me up and dumped me in. I evidently was the last one put in that boat because they started lowering right away." Ruth did not know the officer's name, but for the rest of her long life she would tell story of how James Moody had swiftly picked her up and placed her in the boat - an old woman recounting a story about a young ship's officer lost in the early years of the century, before the first World War
There are a few problems with that collated scenario that I see if we take into consideration other related survivor witness accounts like Leading Fireman Barrett. But before we come to that, I would like to look at the whole picture.
If Ruth Becker had returned with the blankets and was standing behind her mother when the latter followed the two smaller children into Lifeboat #11 and Ruth herself was not allowed in because there was no room, it certainly would have to be on the A-deck where the final loading of that boat took place. But in that case, would Ruth have been able to "move down the deck" and get into Lifeboat #13 and still be one of the last to board that lifeboat? I don't want to get the debate of which Lifeboat Launching Sequence I believe in but suffice to say that in the two most widely accepted (yet somewhat different) works on this subject, there is a 7 minute difference between the launch times of Lifeboats #11 and #13 respectively in one sequence and 5 minutes in the other. Considering that by then everyone on board the Titanic knew that the ship was sinking and all lifeboat loading and launching activity was rather frenetic, 5 to 7 minutes would have been quite a 'long' time.
So, my question is - when Lifeboat #11 started its final lowering to the sea from the A-deck, had Lifeboat #13 already arrived there? Even if it had, would #13 have been already so full so that Ruth was just about to find her place before it started to lower away like she claimed? Although there are no specific comments to that effect (as far as I know), reading between the lines of survivor accounts suggests that there were quite a few places still left on Lifeboat #13 (unlike Lifeboat #15 shortly afterwards) when it arrived on the A-deck where it took on more passengers. That would also explain those 5 to 7 minutes difference that I mentioned above before Lifeboat #13 followed Lifeboat #11 to the surface of the ocean. In fact, just as Lifeboat #13 was about to be lowered from the A-deck to the sea, Lifeboat #15 arrived on the A-deck and took on a few more people before it also was finally lowered, resulting in the well known descent issues with #13, which had by then not yet reached the sea. By then Lifeboat #11 had rowed away quite a few minutes earlier.
There is also the statement by Leading Fireman Barrett, who arrived on A-deck just before Lifeboat #13 was lowered and was ordered into the boat and "take an oar" by the man in charge - Boatswain Nichols. Barrett said that there was no officer on A-deck at the time but he could hear (but not see) one issuing orders above on the boat deck, which IMO could only have been Moody at Lifeboat #15, which was still on that level at that stage. While it is possible that the then 12 year-old Ruth Becker could have mistaken Nichols for an officer and later assumed him to have been Moody, it still does not explain how she could have been 'one of the last' to board that lifeboat before it started to lower.