>>And int my opinion the workers and sailors of the Titanic weren't that experience as i could have seen.<<
They weren't? You might want to start checking the biographies. A substantial number of these people had been at sea for nearly all their working lives. The issue was one of training to deal with specific emergencies and there at least, they were on the low end of the learning curve.
>>The guy who would take care of the telegraph should have sent the warnings of the iceberg to the captain that the Californian was sending them instead of rudely telling them to shut up<<
And if the Californian's operator had addressed his message as a master service message, which formally requires the Captain's attention, it might have happened that way. That Mr. Evans
didn't do it that way, but simply broke in to the middle of an outgoing message and blasting the Titanic's eardrums out is what got him the rude response.
It wouldn't have really added that much to what was already known in any event. There were warnings that reached the bridge and the watch. Enough so that they knew when they would be in the region of ice, and the watch was given special instructions to be on the lookout for ice.
Bottom line: They knew.
>>and i think that the Titanic should have made a head-on collision with the iceberg that way only one of the compartments could be flooded and still make the trip.<<
Would it have? Edward Wilding thought the ship would have survived but also that the bow would have been punched in for a substantial distance. More then just one compartment.
>>And if they were to to a complete left to avoid the berg then they should have went full speed rather then just putting it on reverse, that would just pull the iceberg closer to it and have it to ram against the iceberg...<<
Huh??? On the matter of reversal, it's questionable to say the least that it ever even happened. If Dillon and Scott are correct, no engine reversal happened until
after the accident.
As to the rest, this was kicked around at the British Inquiry and dismissed as a bad idea. Might I suggest that instead of getting hung up on the myth, that you start persuing primary source material so you can get a better sense not only of what really happened, but also how it was understood and percieved at the time. You can start with the inquiry transcripts themselves at
http://www.titanicinquiry.org/