I just realized that there was yet another massive "plot hole" in the alleged Nye-Uruchurthu incident. The myth that Elizabeth Nye stood weeping near Lifeboat #11 pleading to be allowed inside because she had a husband and child waiting for her in New York makes no sense any more than the myth that Manuel Uruchurtu offered his seat to her.
While Lifeboat #11 completed its loading and was about to be lowered, Lifeboats #13 and #15 were in the early stages of loading just aft on the boat deck. 12 year-old Ruth Becker, just getting back from her cabin with a blanket, was unable to rejoin her mother and little brother in Lifeboat #11 as it had already started to lower. The girl promptly walked to where the crew were loading Lifeboat #13 and was allowed in immediately. Why could Elizabeth Nye not have done that instead of asking (or implying) someone already in #11 should give-up their seat for her?
It does not end there. There is evidence that during loading of Lifeboats #13 and #15, crew "scouts" were sent out to find any women or children stragglers in the vicinity so that they could be shepherded into either lifeboat. If Mrs Nye really had been standing near Lifeboat #11 just as it was about to be lowered, she would certainly have been spotted and ushered into Lifeboat #13.