Susan, I really do not want to argue with you becuse your heart is in the right place. But, I think you are among the multitude who have been tricked by modern nonthink when it comes to facing the risks of life.
Specifically, victimhood has achieved exhaulted status as we enter the 21st century. It is the key to riches in our courts, 10 minutes on TV, and public acclaim.
But, does the word "victim" apply to someone who quite willingly undertakes a risky adventure? Nobody who steps foot on the deck of a ship, into the fusalage of an airplane, or sits on the seat of a train has any logical expectation of 100% avoidance of danger. Human beings do not have the knowledge or skill to design the 100% perfect means of transportation. You can even sprain your ankle walking.
Thus, if a trip in a mechanical conveyance turns out to be the one on which "something" goes wrong, the willing people who rode as passengers are not victims, but volunteers.
This does not negate the concept of responsibility. White Star Line and its employees voluntarily undertook the responsibility for conducting a safe voyge. And, within that context are responsible for any problems (ranging from lost luggage to lost lives) they created for passengers when Titanic sank. The amount of responsibility is limited by certain laws and international treaties, so is too complex an issue for this discussion. But, the responsibility for the accident and its costs belonged to White Star.
Saying that White Star was responsible for its actions, however, is a far cry from saying that the passengers were "victims." Remember, Titanic's passengers voluntarily went aboard a means of travel that faced the greatest number of dangers known to mankind in 1912. To my knowledge no one was forced to cross the gangplank at gunpoint. Every passenger had the opportunity of not paying for a ticket, not boarding, and not facing the risks of wind, wave, iceberg, etc.
Now, the term "victim" might apply to an innocent person strolling on a public sidewalk. If Titanic had roared into port, jumped the quay and slid across the street to squish said saunterer, that person certainly would have qualified as a "victim." He did not volunteer or agree in any way to grease the keel of an ocean liner.
But, when you buy a ticket and step off the solid earth to go where human beings were not designed to live, you voluntarily place yourself in harms way. To look at it any other way is illogical.
It is also self-deception to think that pointing the finger of blame at someone does anything but vent your personal spleen. There isn't a airline pilot or ship's captain today who will level with the investigative agencies charged with improving public safety. The reason is simple. Telling the truth so that nobody else has to repeat your mistake just opens the doors to unlimited litigation. So, if anything goes wrong as a licensed operator you clam up...or, in
Lightoller's vernacular, you apply whitewash with a brush.
--David G. Brown