Maureen Zottoli
Member
Ing,
It's funny in a way, but you were the one who in several posts states that we just need facts not emotionalism in research and yet it appears that a mighty sensitive spot has been broke open and salt poured in generously here.
I want to be clear here, there are many who are very moved by what you state regarding socks, boxer shorts and a lifetime's worth of grief to those who knew the 24 year old who died. I very much agree with you. And it is upsetting when settlements are made that insensitive people move in to claim or pilfer through private things. I hate that too. And I too do not give a damn about whether or not the salvors have any legal right to these private things, because I too have allowed these people of long ago to get under my skin and it is personal now...it isn't just business. The Godfather was wrong.
But the facts and not the emotions of the issue are (as someone I can't remember who it was now) still remain, if what they said is true: given that there was a settlement the source of the settlement would have taken over ownership of the ship and its contents. But, is that true?
Legally, they didn't take possession....so, didn't they too give up their rights by not going after their property? So, when the items are recovered, shouldn't they be handed over to the original owners....or is it finder keepers losers weepers sort of thing. (On 295 running just south of DC, if you leave your car unattended on the road to seek road service, you will be lucky to find your chasis in the morning let alone your vehicle. But the residents hold to the finders keepers attitude.)
That seems a totally cold way of handling it. But that seems the way of this world anymore.
I have no idea anymore what is right and what is wrong Ing. All I know is that in my heart, it hurts. It hurts to see folks gutting her. And yet it was totally errie and yet fascinating to stand before an item, even a watch that was a part of all of this.
I respect you Ing and your view. And I know you don;t give a damn whether I do or not, I just thought that I would say that.
Maureen.
Please note:When you pass on, if I am still here I will see to it that none of the guys goes through your private things.
It's funny in a way, but you were the one who in several posts states that we just need facts not emotionalism in research and yet it appears that a mighty sensitive spot has been broke open and salt poured in generously here.
I want to be clear here, there are many who are very moved by what you state regarding socks, boxer shorts and a lifetime's worth of grief to those who knew the 24 year old who died. I very much agree with you. And it is upsetting when settlements are made that insensitive people move in to claim or pilfer through private things. I hate that too. And I too do not give a damn about whether or not the salvors have any legal right to these private things, because I too have allowed these people of long ago to get under my skin and it is personal now...it isn't just business. The Godfather was wrong.
But the facts and not the emotions of the issue are (as someone I can't remember who it was now) still remain, if what they said is true: given that there was a settlement the source of the settlement would have taken over ownership of the ship and its contents. But, is that true?
Legally, they didn't take possession....so, didn't they too give up their rights by not going after their property? So, when the items are recovered, shouldn't they be handed over to the original owners....or is it finder keepers losers weepers sort of thing. (On 295 running just south of DC, if you leave your car unattended on the road to seek road service, you will be lucky to find your chasis in the morning let alone your vehicle. But the residents hold to the finders keepers attitude.)
That seems a totally cold way of handling it. But that seems the way of this world anymore.
I have no idea anymore what is right and what is wrong Ing. All I know is that in my heart, it hurts. It hurts to see folks gutting her. And yet it was totally errie and yet fascinating to stand before an item, even a watch that was a part of all of this.
I respect you Ing and your view. And I know you don;t give a damn whether I do or not, I just thought that I would say that.
Maureen.
Please note:When you pass on, if I am still here I will see to it that none of the guys goes through your private things.