Gordon Mooneyhan
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I think I would find Bruce Ismay and stick with him, and join him and Mr. Carter in Collapsible C.
I am in a similar situation with a couple of differences. My travels across the Atlantic to America were about once a year (less frequent after retirement in 2019) and always for holiday purposes or spending time with relatives. I usually travel Premium Economy and on board the Titanic, I would have been travelling Second Class.I'm middle class professional in the UK who travels a fair bit across the Atlantic for work, in the same circumstances in 1912 I most likely would have been travelling in 2nd class- the 1912 equivalent of "premium economy".
Quite. And the best example during the Titanic for such quiet courage, verified by the "beneficiaries", would be IMO the father and son pair of Percival and Richard White. Those gentlemen had befriended fellow First Class passengers and mother and daughter pair of Elizabeth and Mary Lines during the voyage; they almost certainly were also dinner table companions.There are times when “survival of the fittest” is pushed aside by the deliberate choice to let others survive at the expense of one’s own life. Such self-sacrificing behavior is the stuff of legend
Thanks so much for posting that, Arun. I see on Amazon that Michael Poirer, too, gave it a good review and that it's only $7.39. I had vowed to not order any more books until I get caught up, but I couldn't resist ordering this one. It sounds fascinating.I highly recommend the independently published book about the Whites called Tales Of A Titanic Family by William Russo. It gives a good insight to those men and the the odd feeling that they were somehow ahead of their times in their thinking.
LOL...That vow and one other I quit making to making to myself because I no know I can never keep them. At my age now I've come to the conclusion that the best way to deal with temptation is just give in to it and move on. I had knocked down my stack of books but it's been growing again. Anyway enjoy your new book.Thanks so much for posting that, Arun. I see on Amazon that Michael Poirer, too, gave it a good review and that it's only $7.39. I had vowed to not order any more books until I get caught up, but I couldn't resist ordering this one. It sounds fascinating.
Yes. There's been recent examples of the crews failing miserably IMO. The Costa Concordia and one who' name I forget in the eastern Med recently. Both captains abandoned their ships and passengers and hauled ass in a boat. They both said they were going for help...There are times when “survival of the fittest” is pushed aside by the deliberate choice to let others survive at the expense of one’s own life. Such self-sacrificing behavior is the stuff of legend; Birkenhead Drill or Wallace Hartley and his ensemble. When fire consumed the packet Poland in 1840 and some began taking to the boats, a French passenger spoke up and said, ‘Let us take care of the women and children first.’” That might be the first utterance of the term that became an unwritten law. Other examples, like the sinking of Collins Line's Arctic, showed otherwise. Being a retired professional seaman, I suppose my duty would be to help the crew, but I wouldn't like it.
A well thought out reply Arun, well done. Do know what you mean about having a higher instinct or awareness of multi-factored possibilities. Logic and pre planning also prevail in that though, hence with any air travel you will find me booking early and always selecting the escape hatch row (get the benefit of more leg room too). In three huge write-off car accidents I literally stepped out of the crushed vehicle and walked away, having the ability to not panic myself would probably be due to a few factors that others may find similar.I am in a similar situation with a couple of differences. My travels across the Atlantic to America were about once a year (less frequent after retirement in 2019) and always for holiday purposes or spending time with relatives. I usually travel Premium Economy and on board the Titanic, I would have been travelling Second Class.
Modesty apart, I'll say that I have a very large built-in instinct for danger & self-preservation as well as instinctively being able to find the correct escape route. Both are likely results of a troubled childhood, but we won't go into that. I have asked the same question to myself again and again, both if I was alone and if I was with my wife. As Second Class passengers we would have been at the stern and asleep, but I know that both would have realized something had happened instinctively. I believe that irrespective of what the crew told me, I would have realized that the ship was sinking and prepared to get to a lifeboat. For reasons that I cannot explain, I always find myself/us being saved on Lifeboat #9.
The one thing that I have not factored-in is whether my/our ethnic group could have made a difference in accessing space(s) on board Lifeboats in 1912. On balance, I like to think probably not in Second Class and not on "Murdoch's" starboard side.
The sketches were made by Lewis Palmer Skidmore (his name is in the right corner) on-board the Carpathia. Thayer is known to have criticized the drawing after it was published in the newspapers.A well thought out reply Arun, well done. Do know what you mean about having a higher instinct or awareness of multi-factored possibilities. Logic and pre planning also prevail in that though, hence with any air travel you will find me booking early and always selecting the escape hatch row (get the benefit of more leg room too). In three huge write-off car accidents I literally stepped out of the crushed vehicle and walked away, having the ability to not panic myself would probably be due to a few factors that others may find similar.
Am a good musician, playing by ear. Surfing and extreme sports background (bungy jumping etc), farming/country lad, ambidextrous. Nickname at high school was McGyver. Also a director/actor (a skill that would have assisted you Arun way back then).
So - Titanic. If I was "time traveled" into situation, or purchased a ticket and traveling I would hope to say would both end in same result of survival, I would be utilising every recording method was able to "modern" or the status quo ante.
In saying all the above, this image (already on the site) is out of my 1975 Readers Digest. Have always thought that "John B Thayer" had some balls".
Even though my great grandfather was the deputy mayor of Edinburgh back then, you wouldn't find me traveling or socialising with "the toff's", most PROBABLY find me in the second class cabin right beside Arun. My grandparents (the deputy mayors daughter), were both anti-royalists, Grandad a union leader and Gran, yep... a suffragette. If traveled in period I would have already made acquintences with you Arun, they then would have pulled us onto the Carpathia together from some sort of floating contraption, noting, I would have been off the ship pronto. View attachment 114892
Ok, thank you Thomas.The sketches were made by Lewis Palmer Skidmore (his name is in the right corner) on-board the Carpathia. Thayer is known to have criticized the drawing after it was published in the newspapers.
What to do, what to do. But can't interfere with events? That's too bad. I would everything I could to get the attention of the Californian.if you arrived at 11:40, after the collision, without immediately making for a lifeboat, or interfering in events, what would you do? (please don't delete this, this is a slightly different question)